For Louise, 45, caring for her mum Doris, 87, is a daily act of love. Living nearby in Bristol, Louise makes sure her mum has everything she needs — keeping the cupboards stocked, preparing dinner each evening, and helping her keep on top of important appointments. Doris is fiercely independent, but she treasures the reassurance of knowing her daughter is always close by.
But as Louise and her husband Mark approached their 20th wedding anniversary, she longed for a special holiday to celebrate together. The thought of leaving Doris, even for a short while, filled her with worry. Would her mum feel lonely? Would she manage without the familiar rhythm of their daily routines?
Turning to Country Cousins
Determined to give her mum the support she deserved while also taking a much-needed break, Louise turned to Country Cousins. The solution was respite care — short-term support that would give Louise the peace of mind to enjoy her holiday while ensuring Doris had the comfort of a friendly presence at home.
That’s when Agnes, a compassionate and experienced carer, joined Doris for the week. Though Doris wasn’t used to live-in care, Louise knew having someone there around the clock would mean her mum wouldn’t be alone, and the house would stay full of warmth, safety, and companionship.
A Friendly Face at Home
Agnes quickly became more than just a carer — she was a companion. From sharing a pot of tea in the morning, to gentle encouragement to keep hydrated through the day, to preparing comforting meals in the evening, Agnes made sure Doris felt supported without ever compromising her independence.
Doris especially enjoyed chatting with Agnes about Bristol’s history, sharing family stories, and having someone alongside her for those little daily tasks. The companionship meant she never felt isolated while Louise was away.
The Gift of Respite
For Louise, the holiday with Mark wasn’t just about celebrating an anniversary — it was about restoring balance and taking time for herself, safe in the knowledge her mum was in caring, capable hands. The relief she felt knowing Doris wasn’t alone allowed her to truly relax and return home refreshed.
Doris, meanwhile, had gained a new friend in Agnes and was reminded that support doesn’t have to mean losing independence — it can simply mean having someone kind and reliable nearby.
Why Respite Care Matters
Louise and Doris’s story reflects the true value of respite care:
- Peace of mind for families who need a break
- Practical and emotional support for those who prefer the comfort of home
- Companionship and reassurance that enhances wellbeing and independence
At Country Cousins, we know that caring for a loved one can be both rewarding and demanding. Respite care gives families the chance to rest, recharge, and celebrate life’s milestones, while ensuring their loved ones continue to feel safe, cared for, and never alone.
